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Wednesday, 11 November 2009

  • Cry

    It is a fact that I will cry very easily. However.....

    ·         會哭的男人更可愛


    常言道 : 男人流血不流淚.
    這句話,母親們最愛與自己的小男孩說.
    就是這樣,一代傳一代,男兒漢從此就被困在這封建的思想裡,"強壯的,就不會流淚."

    沒錯的,男人自太初便被女人強壯,但那只是在身體上而言.
    所以在田裡頭賣力的,是男人;要負重物的,是男人.
    這是理所當然,亦是順天而行之法.

    其實,大家總是患上大近視似的,事情多看表面,卻忽略了內頭的真相.

    為何男人的壓力往往比女人的大呢?
    為何女人總是投訴
    男人甚麼事也藏在心裡,一事不說呢?
    答案人所共知,
    因為男人酷愛面子,不願被人視為"軟弱",
    彷彿有人嘲笑他們失去雄風,一厥不振,
    故此不願和人分享不快和失敗.

    哈哈,這真是人類文明的一大笑話.

    自創世以來,人類就是心靈軟弱的動物,
    女人軟弱,男人也軟弱,甚是更軟弱.
    女人遇不快,失敗,挫折,
    總能找對象傾訴,不管是三五知己,男朋友,
    亦總能獲得別人的憐惜,支持,和鼓勵,
    因為眾人都知道"女人是軟弱的."
    但可憐的男人們總愛躲在自己的黑洞裡,
    或是鬱鬱不歡,或是埋頭苦幹,
    想著壓力會自然消散.
    男人,真是一群屈在牆角的可憐蟲!

    所以我認為會哭的男人是可愛的.
    (
    注意:這裡的"可愛"不是解作"卡娃兒",
    而是可以,並更值得您去愛.)
    當男兒淚流下那刻,
    這代表了他願意無視世俗傳統的眼光,
    這代表了他願意放下世人所謂的尊嚴,
    這代表了他願意敞開心扉,和您分享軟弱.
    但哪人會知道作這事情需要很大的勇氣!

    雖是流淚,卻是勇敢!
    雖是分享"軟弱",卻是表達"剛強"!

    現在,您會更愛那會落淚的他嗎?
    還在想?起來對他說聲"我愛您!"
    或是送他一個熱情香吻和緊緊擁抱吧!

    緊記,會哭的男人更可愛!

    Encouraging Passage 3

     Great people are not those who never fail; 
             
    They are those who never quit !!

    Great People are not those who never fail;

    They are those who never quit

Saturday, 31 October 2009

  • Encouragements to all of you

    To all of my basketball's friends,

    One of my baskeball's friend share with me and I want to share to all of you, especially Ko Chun, Danny Tang, Chi Kit, Chin ML , Mentos , Ka Ka , Ka Yan , Ray Lee , Wing Fung , Fish , Edwin , Yeung Kai Yin , Ma Chin To , Shi Hau Sum , Fat Lun (HYC) , Chow Chi Kit , Au Yeung Wing Hong , Ozone , .........

    從小開始喜歡籃球也已經有將近20年了,到今天我還是對籃球有著不可言喻的感覺,我喜歡不斷的進步,我想要打得更開心,不管是任何比賽我都希望能享受到籃球的樂趣,在訓練的過程中,我知道自己的確有能力在籃球場上繼續奮戰,雖然隨著年齡漸長,機會漸少,但我從不懷疑自己的能力,我依然維持自己應該做的的訓練,只在等一個機會,一個能讓我展現籃球專才的機會,因為對自己的要求,因為對自己的堅持,因為對籃球的熱愛,我會克服任何困境,受傷,我就復健,沒上場機會,我就找上場機會,沒人相信我,我就找相信我的人,我不斷的調整自己的狀況,我相信我能繼續堅持我自己的籃球路!!!!!

    To all of the readers,      Encouraging Passage 2

    2. Who doesn't want a crystal ball?

    This is the question:
    wouldn't it be nice if someone could pop out and tell u the answers to everything when u're puzzled, u're lost...

    I wish life is just like a game which we can save and load the game anytime we want, but the point is the game will be boring if you keep loading the game in order to get it start all over for a better score... Life is beautiful and treasurable because you don't have any second chance, you can't go back to where it starts. It's one shot, so make it big. Although someone reminded me recently that whatever you do or choose, you will be whoever you are in the end, so just enjoy the walking down the path whatever it leads you to go. You are living in the world of others which is not your own world, there is so much things that we can't control, so just leave those uncontrollable factors. Sometimes, you think you are making a big decision, but after a while, you may notice that whatever it is, it makes no difference. don't put too much focus on tomorrow, the future, by missing out what you have now, which we call the "present".... sometimes, when you feel puzzled, it's good that it gives you the chance to rethink and know more about ourselves, also the chance to talk with friends..... it's always enjoyable for the present time which you can control, it's always a mystery for tomorrow.

    After chasing the answers for so many years, i suddenly realized why we are all troubled with finding the answers of our own, it's because....... THERE IS NEVER AN ANSWER OUT THERE.... we, ourselves, are the only answers to our own selves.

    Remember you live for yourself, not for any other reasons...

     

Thursday, 01 October 2009

  • Overview

    不經不覺,現在己經來到了10月1日,回想起這幾個月來的生活,我真的是經歷了很多,體會了很多,我是真的、真的十分懷念之前的生活。可惜,殘酷的人總是要面對現實。現在就是現在,永不能回到過去.

    現在的我是一個中六的學生,原校升讀.無錯,這是數以萬計會考生所渴求的,亦是我身邊不少同學和朋友所希望的.雖然如此,但我卻十分討厭我現在的生活. 首先,高考的課程真的是十分艱巨, 很多人說高考課程的學生最辛苦的學習時段, 會考小兒科,現在我真的體會到.剛開學的我,己經發覺自己好似好多都跟唔到,好多野都唔識,甚至連Eng (UE) 都覺得困難.再加上老師成日都講,即使你用同樣的努力放同樣的時間,你高考的成績必定是比你會考成績低兩級. 這樣說,我高考的三科AL 的成績就不是 E、E、F、嗎?這樣的我入大學的機會可說是零.想到這裏,我真的是十分緊張和擔心. 我真的是好想放棄. 不過,我記得鍾Sir曾經同我講過,一但上了「戰場」我們就沒有退縮的機會,只好勇敢地堅強地面對一切. 因此,現在只好接受現實.迎戰高考!

     

    其次, 就是環境的轉變,雖然是原校升讀,但是也有着很大的轉變. 我現在就讀的6A只有了3男27女.超過90%的同學都是女同學,其實這都不是一個問題,最重要的是那種感覺.我是一個好着重感覺的人,6A完全不能給F4, F5時的感覺,這種感覺是nice 的,正面的,開心的返學感覺和歸屬感. 在6A是完全找不到,可說是一點都無. 可是,以前的4E,5E 就100%能給我這種感覺,即使我在F.4、F.5時讀書充滿壓力,但是每當我踏進課室的一刻.我都是欣喜的,我好鍾意與4E、F.5上堂的時候,我好鍾意與他們的一些經歷.

    雖然佢地成日玩我,但係我知佢地並無惡意.相反,每當我唔開心、辛苦、壓力大的時候佢地都會開解我,逗我開心.另外,佢地會體諒我,特別是那些繁重的班務,他們甚至會幫我,減輕我的工作,.雖然我成日帶俾他們好多麻煩,但是他們從來沒有嫌棄我,換來的只是無限的支持.還記得我第一次停課的時候,佢地成班送我一張開心卡去鼓勵我.另外,我好記得《稻香》周杰倫這首歌,因為是我5E的一個同學send比我的,去鼓勵我的.現在每當我唔開心時,我都會很自然地聽這首歌,更會好不其然地想起佢!多謝你呀!Anyway,未聽過這首歌的朋友,不妨一聽吧!歌詞都不錯的!最後,我真係超級超級鍾意4E、5E!!!

     

    回地現實,人生總會遇到很多困難和不如意的事.所謂「人生不如意事十常八九」,只在乎我們怎樣去面對吧!就好像離別、分開吧,常言道「人有悲歡離合,月有陰晴圓缺,但願人長久,千里共嬋娟」及「天下無不散之延席」,好像覺得這是一件好平常的問題,不過,我就不能抱着平常心去面對或許我真的是一個十分感性的人吧!就好似我以前班4E、5E,我真係好掛住佢佢地,特別係Be Be,肥釘、高進、沛德、霆峰等,可惜的是,現在我們都各散東西,有的repeat F.5,有的外校F.6, 有的海外升學,有的副學士,有的IVE…再也不能像以前一樣一起上堂,一起聽Miss Lau 的broken gag,可能這些就是定律吧!但願你們升學順利,認真讀書,朝着自己的目標進發.還有的是,其他5A /5B/5D的同學,特別係子謙、子傑、Edward Fong、九毛、Raehael Wong、曹倩、黃淞湦、許孝琛、謝榮豐等.尤其是5B班,佢地真係比我一個好深的印象.其實一直找都想問吓各位近況或約出來聚舊.可惜的是,時間並一容許我這樣做,即使是在剛過去的暑假.

     

    談到剛過去的暑假.我真的是經歷了很多野,識左更多的人,唔多唔少,都令我成長、成熟左好多.我合共做了三份工,Pizza Hut,私人補習,Sales,參加了五項活動.學友社明日領航者計劃2009,樂施會樂施行動組2009,香港青年大使2009,救世軍外展青年服務,救世軍暑期兒童紛紛學習社.而前三項更經過嚴格的面試.最後,我亦上了一個course LCCI level 3.在這項範疇中,真的是無形中擴闊了自己的社交圈子和視野,最重要的是自己的眼光不會太狹窄,好多野都不會太介懷,順其自然.就以會考例,即使我得18分,雖然當中我的外校朋友全都高分過我,我都沒有太介意,因為我明白到每個人真的有自己的優點.我既然18分都能入到那3個programme,這都證明我有一定的能力.

     

    講到這些programme,我真係識左不少好朋友.學友社,當然係我的至愛,我的組﹏火鳳凰!luilui,MQ,Fatlun,陳欣,Donald,游泳,Karon,Jennifer,Nicole,多謝你地啊!同你地一齊的時間真係好開心,仲有大家之間可以係完全無秘密,這種感覺好好啊!仲有,實踐的A組,我都好鍾意你地,特別啊Ray!!Anyway 多謝你地每一位,你地讓我過左一個十分充實的暑假.

    Camp 11.jpg

     

     

                 Camp 11.jpg Photo 3.jpg

     

    提到青年大使,我的Group17,最令我深刻的當然是Louis和Danny啦!Anyway,在這個暑假.我地一連串的workshops和visits 都加深左我地大家彼此的認識,關係 close 左好多,Vivian,Cherry Mak, Jeffery Wong,Tang Wong, Connie,Danny, Man Yee多謝你地!每次我講笑話的時候,你地都一定好專心地聽我講,仲有影相時,你地又留番過post俾我扮,Anyway, I love all of you so much.

     

     

     Photo 7.jpg

    最後,就係樂施會,哨牙我一定一定記得你,仲有我地B組所有人,我地一齊經歷左好多次體驗,好多次presentation. 好多次visits. 另外,Eva, Stacey, Ai Shan, Joyce,Cammy, Tracy,同你地一組都好開心. Anyway, 我地一定要一齊加油!努力呀!

     

    最後最後,To all of my friends/classmates.give你地兩句說話:

    (1) 犧牲享受, 享受犧牲,這句話己經成了我的座右銘.多謝你呀!啊Jade.係你同我講的.

    (2) 有捨必有得, 多謝 Miss Lam Wai King.

    For F.5 的同學/朋友 or Repeat 的同學/朋友: 考好會考!!!但唔好給予自己太多壓力,順其自然吧!

    For原校F.6 and F.7 students: 學業進步,高考成功,快D開始準備 because領先只因比人學得更多 (by Daniel Yu)

    For大學/High Diploma//IVE // Associ’s friends or relatives: 愉快大學生活,換左新環境,向自己的興趣/ and目標出發.

    For外校 F6 : 盡快適應新環境,努力讀書 !!

    For海外讀書的朋友 : Chun Hei, Danny,Jeffery, Matthew, Derek, Lampard,Veronica Ko, 證皓, 即使相隔二地,我地的心都係一齊的. Add oil!

Wednesday, 29 April 2009

  • Tired

    End of this dying and tiring week!!

    Maths----- a diffcult and creative paper , especially for Paper 2 and Paper 1 Section B, So no confidence

    To all Maths students,

    CE Maths Paper 1

    Section B

    Q15 the Taxi one is step function...it's not new, the last time and only time in HKCEE can be found in 1976 paper...but it required students to sketch the graph, so you are lucky... and if you think it's a new type of question, then you should take a look at the paper of 1976...

    for Q17, the 3D one, it's exactly the same as the CE2008 AMaths Q.16....also the same method to find the shortest distance....(Volume is always the same)

    Hist------ a very creative and unbelieveable paper------ die-----I hope I can get a C

    Econ------ a very easy paper-------okay

    Anyway, this is the end of my dying and tiring week------ 2 subjects left for my HKCEE, P.A. (11/5) and Eng(8/5 and 9/5) , these two subjects are quite okay for me, so I can take a few days' rest first.

    I know my other friends or clasmates are still needed to fight , work hard and never give up! I must support all of you, especially for the Chem students today, as well as for next week------ Chinese History, Add. Maths, C.Lit ....... Add oil!!

    To all of my dear, lovely classmates as well as all of my friends:

    It's never the end...

    Always I always say...

    The end of a stage is just the beginning of another stage...
    (of coz usually i mean our homework...one exercise after another)
    (or our study...one chapter or one subject after another)

    but this time, i mean our exam...leave those memory and what's right or wrong for the time being, focus on our next subject, especially your AMaths,C.Hist,C.Lit,Bio and our Eng and P.A.!!!

    Starting from today, for my other parts of my xanga, there will be an encouraging passage each time,but please give me time to type. All of you must spend sometime to read it! Support me and give some comments ! Thanks!!

    Encouraging Passage 1

    1. Hard work repays...eventually if not now

    The more you work hard, the less you depend on luck!

    The more you want your luck, the less you are willing to work hard ...

    Don't gamble your life anymore, Everything Has A Reason, there is no pure luck at all ...

    So WORK HARDER... like a farmer who plants the seeds, and work very hard every day, though the fruit is yet to see or even there is no fruitful result, still they try their very best to attempt, so do you!

    Good Luck if you need it...

     

Saturday, 25 April 2009

  • HKCEE 3

    HKCEE 3

    Last week, Friday and Saturday---- Chinese

    For Paper 1 reading------ very diffcult------ a new format-----no confidence at all

    For paper 2 writing------ diffcult------ write Q.3------ I think I go off topic-----die

    For paper 3 listening------ ok

    For paper 5 integrated task-----ok

    This week is a dying  and hard week as

    Tomorrow------- Maths

    Tuesday (28/4)----- History

    Wednesday (29/4) ------ Econ

    Let's work hard together!  Add oil!!

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